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          |  |  Change or Be ChangedBy Jim Clemmer
 
 George was 53 when he had his first attack. He'd smoked for almost 40 
        years, was badly overweight, had an extremely high fat diet, and handled 
        stress poorly. This warning shocked him into joining a smoking-cessation 
        program. George and his wife also learned about healthy eating and improved 
        their diets. Within a few months he'd lost his huge stomach, was very 
        cheerful, and full of new energy. He was a changed man.
 
 But slowly the memory of his big scare faded. He started having just a 
        cigarette or two. His between-meal snacks turned into high-fat meals. 
        As his health deteriorated and his mood blackened, he needed more cigarettes 
        and food to cheer him up. By the time he approached his 59th birthday, 
        he had convinced himself that he'd never had a heart attack.
 
 That Christmas his family questioned George's return to his old destructive 
        habits. They begged him to return to a healthier lifestyle. George defended 
        his overeating and smoking by saying, "If I can't live the way I 
        want, then life's not worth living." Three months later he had a 
        massive heart attack and died. He chose not to change -- so he was changed.
 
 Some changes appear unexpectedly as a sudden crisis. An accident, act 
        of violence, death, or natural disaster may come out of nowhere to hit 
        us when we least expect (or deserve) it. But most crisis points come with 
        warning signs -- if we choose to see them.
 
 After he lost his job, a production worker at a manufacturing plant said 
        he could "see the writing on the wall" four years ago when the 
        company set up a flexible manufacturing pilot project to experiment with 
        how to automate his circuit-board assembly task, among other jobs.
 
 So what did he do during that time? Curse, pray, and organize his co-workers 
        to decry how unfair things were? Did he try upgrading his skills while 
        the "writing was on the wall?" He sat and waited for four years 
        to have his fate decided for him. He chose not to change -- so he was 
        changed.
 
 Many "sudden changes" are really the next big step in a series 
        of activities that we may have helped create or allowed to continue. These 
        changes may be the result of our failure to change our habits, lifestyle, 
        growth patterns, or skills.
 
 Unless a crisis actually kills us (often it just feels like it will), 
        it's an opportunity for us to change. It's a chance to choose a new path.
 
 But those change choices are seldom easy. Sometimes I can be like one 
        of those old spring-powered pocket watches: I have to be shaken hard to 
        get me going. However, when we choose the road less traveled, we'll reflect 
        back years later and say that, while we wouldn't want to live through 
        the pain again, it was nevertheless an important turning point. It was 
        one of the best things that happened to us. It seasoned and strengthened 
        us.
 
 Responsiveness to change is as important to organizations as is to people. 
        There are two kinds of organizations in today's world: those that are 
        changing and those that are going out of business. The business and government 
        graveyard is filled with the corpses of organizations that failed to respond 
        to inevitable changes.
 
 Similarly, there are also two kinds of people: those who are changing 
        and those who are setting themselves up to be victims of change. As the 
        world continues to march on around us, if I am only maintaining the status 
        quo -- if I'm not growing -- then I'm falling behind.
 
      
         
          | Excerpted from Jim's fourth bestseller, Growing 
              the Distance: Timeless Principles for Personal, Career, and Family 
              Success. View the book's unique format and content, Introduction 
              and Chapter One, and feedback showing why nearly 100,000 copies 
              are now in print at www.growingthedistance.com. 
              Jim's new companion book to Growing the Distance is The 
              Leader's Digest: Timeless Principles for Team and Organization Success. 
              Jim Clemmer is an internationally acclaimed keynote speaker, workshop/retreat 
              leader, and management team developer on leadership, change, customer 
              focus, culture, teams, and personal growth. His web site is www.clemmer.net. 
              
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