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Change or Be Changed
By Jim Clemmer
George was 53 when he had his first attack. He'd smoked for almost 40
years, was badly overweight, had an extremely high fat diet, and handled
stress poorly. This warning shocked him into joining a smoking-cessation
program. George and his wife also learned about healthy eating and improved
their diets. Within a few months he'd lost his huge stomach, was very
cheerful, and full of new energy. He was a changed man.
But slowly the memory of his big scare faded. He started having just a
cigarette or two. His between-meal snacks turned into high-fat meals.
As his health deteriorated and his mood blackened, he needed more cigarettes
and food to cheer him up. By the time he approached his 59th birthday,
he had convinced himself that he'd never had a heart attack.
That Christmas his family questioned George's return to his old destructive
habits. They begged him to return to a healthier lifestyle. George defended
his overeating and smoking by saying, "If I can't live the way I
want, then life's not worth living." Three months later he had a
massive heart attack and died. He chose not to change -- so he was changed.
Some changes appear unexpectedly as a sudden crisis. An accident, act
of violence, death, or natural disaster may come out of nowhere to hit
us when we least expect (or deserve) it. But most crisis points come with
warning signs -- if we choose to see them.
After he lost his job, a production worker at a manufacturing plant said
he could "see the writing on the wall" four years ago when the
company set up a flexible manufacturing pilot project to experiment with
how to automate his circuit-board assembly task, among other jobs.
So what did he do during that time? Curse, pray, and organize his co-workers
to decry how unfair things were? Did he try upgrading his skills while
the "writing was on the wall?" He sat and waited for four years
to have his fate decided for him. He chose not to change -- so he was
changed.
Many "sudden changes" are really the next big step in a series
of activities that we may have helped create or allowed to continue. These
changes may be the result of our failure to change our habits, lifestyle,
growth patterns, or skills.
Unless a crisis actually kills us (often it just feels like it will),
it's an opportunity for us to change. It's a chance to choose a new path.
But those change choices are seldom easy. Sometimes I can be like one
of those old spring-powered pocket watches: I have to be shaken hard to
get me going. However, when we choose the road less traveled, we'll reflect
back years later and say that, while we wouldn't want to live through
the pain again, it was nevertheless an important turning point. It was
one of the best things that happened to us. It seasoned and strengthened
us.
Responsiveness to change is as important to organizations as is to people.
There are two kinds of organizations in today's world: those that are
changing and those that are going out of business. The business and government
graveyard is filled with the corpses of organizations that failed to respond
to inevitable changes.
Similarly, there are also two kinds of people: those who are changing
and those who are setting themselves up to be victims of change. As the
world continues to march on around us, if I am only maintaining the status
quo -- if I'm not growing -- then I'm falling behind.
Excerpted from Jim's fourth bestseller, Growing
the Distance: Timeless Principles for Personal, Career, and Family
Success. View the book's unique format and content, Introduction
and Chapter One, and feedback showing why nearly 100,000 copies
are now in print at www.growingthedistance.com.
Jim's new companion book to Growing the Distance is The
Leader's Digest: Timeless Principles for Team and Organization Success.
Jim Clemmer is an internationally acclaimed keynote speaker, workshop/retreat
leader, and management team developer on leadership, change, customer
focus, culture, teams, and personal growth. His web site is www.clemmer.net.
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